How Sex Toys for Married Couples Can Rekindle the Spark

Key Takeaways:

• If you’re coming up empty on your search for cool gifts for swingers, you just need to find something that’s sexy and thoughtful at the same time.
• From classy lingerie and penis extenders to sex furniture, and erotic games, you can choose from a whole bunch of options that are both playful and passionate.
• Monogamous married couples can also use sex toys for spicing up their intimacy and reigniting that spark in the bedroom.

Bedroom monotony is a bitter pill to swallow. But the harsh truth is that it can creep up and rear its looming head on even the healthiest of marriages. Because in the swing of paying bills, taking the kids to practice, and dividing up parenting duties, it’s easy to find that spark fading.

But times like these are when intimacy needs to become a team sport instead of a race to the finish line. From supporting your partner’s fantasies to using sex toys on each other, it’s worth a try to feel those butterflies again.

These sex toys for married couples toe the line between thoughtful and sexy. But first, let's break down what sex toys really bring to the table.

What Sex Toys Can Do for Your Relationship

The truth about being married is that simply planning the odd date night every other week isn’t enough to keep the spark alive. You need to start getting creative! 

But married couples can still work on intimacy with sex toys. Because to truly make a marriage work, you’ve got to put thought and effort into all aspects of your partnership. This might just make your love feel as fresh and strong as the day you first met. But it’ll definitely revive some of that old energy that you’re missing. Just don’t underestimate what sex toys can offer for your relationship:

• Deeper fulfilment
• More intense orgasms
• Enhanced communication
• Empowerment and exploration
• Stronger connection

And if you’re being joined by a third person, sex toys might make it easier to share sexual roles as a group, and create a mutually fulfilling interaction for everyone involved. So here are our favorite sex toys for married couples. These options work well with two partners or more.

5 Gifts You Can Get for Swingers

1. Sexy Lingerie

Sexy lingerie is a gift any woman would appreciate, even when she’s wearing it just for herself. Pay attention to the colors she gravitates towards, which styles she enjoys wearing, and make sure you pick lingerie that flatters her body type. You’ll need to get a bit creative with finding her size or be sneaky and note down the measurements from any pieces in her drawer. 

2. Sex Furniture

For couples in their autumn years who still love getting frisky, investing in sex furniture and supportive sex toy accessories can be a game-changer for older married couples struggling with intimacy. Sex cushions and toy mounts make it easier to get past physical aches and motor limitations, while still letting you enjoy deeper penetration in all your favorite positions.

3. Penis Pumps

Men, there’s nothing wrong with taking on some outside help to unleash the full extent of your abilities. A penis pump helps you feel bigger and keep going for longer. It’s also a great way to boost your endurance and stamina during sex. But penis sleeves and pumps are really useful if you’re trying to work past issues with ED or premature ejaculation.

4. A Lube Hamper 

Just because lubricants are functional, that doesn’t mean they can’t also be fun. Putting together a hamper with different types of lube can be a great gift for swingers. We’ve made sure to provide plenty of exciting lube options for enhancement and stimulation that married couples can also use with sex toys:

• Pheromone-infused massage oils
• Flavored oral creams
• Sexual accelerator gels
• Shrink creams
• Cooling and desensitizing serums

5. Erotic Games & Books

You can make bedroom intimacy more playful with erotic games that help break the ice. This is a great gift for swingers getting to know their third. But even married couples who aren’t quite ready for sex toys can use these games to steer the conversation towards fantasies and trying new things in bed.

An erotic novel is also a thoughtful gift if your partner loves a sexy page-turner. Make it even sultrier by secretly reading it and surprising them with romance book trope-inspired sex toys & positions.

The Magic of Saying “I Do” to Pleasure

Introducing intimate accessories into your marriage might seem scary at first, but sex toys are a great way for married couples to discover fun new forms of pleasure. You don’t need to dive headfirst into butt play, but you can start simple with a vibrator or a male stroker.

Not only are these great gifts for swingers, but sex toys might just open up a whole new world of desire and connection. Toys can also encourage your partner to find creative ways of finding pleasure by themselves. Because in a solid partnership, both partners need to be content as individuals, too.

We offer plenty of sex toys for married couples that take care of both of you at the same time. These might make your favorite positions feel better, or help you find new ones to love. Ours is a safe space where you and your partner can shop for all kinds of sex toys, lingerie, and intimate accessories. Whether you’re shopping for before, during, or after, FeelGood Store is the answer.