How to Find the G-spot for Explosive Stimulation

For many of us, the G-spot has been a mythical entity for far too long. We’ve all heard of it, but few have ever found it. Well, that changes today. Whether you’re looking to please your partner or discover your release, this guide simplifies finding the G-spot for explosive anatomical pleasure that’s the stuff of urban bedroom fables you’ve heard tales of yet never experienced.

What is the G-spot?

Still thinking about your ex? You won’t be, once you discover where G marks the spot. Named for Gräfenberg, the G-spot is a powerful aspect of having a vaginal orgasm through penetration. Back in the 1950s, Ernst Gräfenberg was among the first to talk about this highly erogenous spot. He was a physician and scientist who discussed the key role G-spot stimulation plays in a vaginal orgasm. 

There’s some debate about whether the G-spot is a distinct anatomical part of the body since it’s also been described as a part of the clitoral network—an intricate extension of the highly sensitive nub we’ve all come to know and love as the clitoris.

But if you’re down to feel absolute thigh-shaking bliss, maybe leave the anatomical debate to the doctors and read on to discover the wonders of G-spot stimulation.

How to Find the G-Spot

The G-spot is located on the front wall of the vagina but it can be challenging to find since it doesn’t exactly feature on your standard human body maps. It’s probably best to carry out your G-spot expedition as a solo venture before trying it with a partner. You can do this while you’re in a relaxed state of mind and open to self-exploration. 

Start by massaging the opening of your vagina and inserting either your fingers or a sex toy that you love using. If you’re using a sex toy for stimulation, choosing a G-spot vibrator helps since those are curved and easily able to reach this erogenous zone. Once you’re turned on, try pushing upwards in the direction of your belly button with the toy or your fingers. Think of this as a “come here” motion, almost like you’re beckoning to someone.

Ditch the in-and-out motion most people mistakenly jump into, and instead focus on massaging this internal region using your fingers or a curved toy with some lube. Stay focused on exploring this feeling as the sensation builds—but don’t worry if G-spot stimulation doesn’t work for you. There’s no right or wrong way to masturbate, and it’s only once you start exploring your body that you can begin to figure out what feels good for you.

G-Spot Stimulation 101: Sex Toys & Positions

Once you understand how to find the G-spot, there are so many different ways you can stimulate it with plenty of fun positions to try. Whether you prefer flying solo or getting busy with a partner, our guide can help you hit countless rounds of pleasure.

Solo Sessions

Using your fingers is a classic technique to familiarize yourself with your G-spot and understand the exact areas of stimulation you enjoy. But once you’re ready to move on to sex toys, you can dive into our collection of G-spot vibrators. 

Like the name suggests, these vibrating toys come with a special curved tip that can reach your G-spot for better stimulation than a regular vibrator. Browse options with rotating heads, ribbed attachments, and plenty of vibration settings to send you into a pleasure-filled spiral.

You can even explore remote-control options for hands-free enjoyment. But if you prefer going analog while figuring out how to find your G-spot, we recommend affixable dildos that can be attached to a flat surface and ridden freely.

Partnered Play

When you want G-spot stimulation during sex, it’s a good idea to be on the same page as your partner. Try choosing positions where you have some control over your movement so you can shift around until you find an angle that feels good. This means picking poses where you’re likely on top and able to shift your pelvis until you feel that explosive sense of pleasure.

Here are a few positions we recommend trying for starters:

• Cowgirl/Reverse Cowgirl

Have your partner lie down and straddle their hips with your legs. Getting into this position means you can fully control the rhythm, pace, angle, as well as depth of penetration. This makes it a lot easier to find and stimulate your G-spot with a partner.

Instead of bouncing up and down, try grinding forward and backward instead. This will give you a better opportunity for G-spot stimulation since you’re more likely to rub your inner vaginal wall against your partner’s penis or strap-on. Once you’re in this position, feel free to explore different speeds and angles until you’re both having fun.

• Doggy Style

This position is ideal if you want deeper penetration with a partner. Get into a crawling pose with your hands and knees on a comfortable platform. Your partner should be kneeling right behind you, poised to enter.

Once they’re inside you, try angling your hips upward or lowering yourself onto your forearms to play around with the angle of penetration until you feel stimulation around your G-spot. 

Many people also prefer lying flat on their stomach with their legs hanging off the edge of the bed and having their partner enter them like this. How you find the G-spot during sex completely depends on your and your partner’s relative heights, along with that of the surface you’re lying on.

• Closed Missionary

Adding a closed-leg twist to missionary creates a tighter squeeze, which, although it doesn’t offer deeper penetration, can make G-spot stimulation more intense. The heightened friction might be just what you need to push you over the edge to orgasm.

Explosive Pleasure—Yours for the Taking

Learning how to find your G-spot and figuring out the best stimulation techniques for your pleasure are the first steps to unlocking explosive pleasure. Although it’s easy to get intimidated by this new form of self-intimacy, pleasuring yourself can be a great way to get more out of your partnered sexual encounters as well. After all, it’s through self-exploration that you can guide sexual partners on how to please you better.

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