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Get Steamy: How To Have the Best Shower Sex

Shower sex gets a bad rap for being slippery, awkward, and downright dangerous, which is a shame because it can be both safe and fun! 

It can also be an incredibly exciting and intimate experience, as combining the sensuality of water with the intimacy of touch is the perfect recipe for passion and connection. A little preparation, some creative shower sex positions, and a few couples’ toys are all you need to turn your bathroom into a steamy sanctuary of pleasure. Let’s flip the script and make shower encounters the thrilling adventure they are meant to be!


Setting the Scene

First, We Set the Scene 

Before you turn the water on, take a moment to get things ready for a safe and satisfying time. Sure, sex is more fun when it’s spontaneous, but that’s exactly why you need to prepare ahead of time. These shower sex tips will enhance your foreplay and help you avoid any slip-ups (literally).

Non-Slip Bath Mat

Lay Down a Non-Slip Bath Mat

Not to be a buzzkill, but bathroom falls send thousands of people to the ER every year, even when they’re in there by themselves, so this one’s non-negotiable.

A sturdy non-slip bath mat will keep your feet grounded as you try out new shower sex positions and do a whole lot to prevent any accidents.

No bath mat, no problem. Non-slip shower shoes can do the trick. Sure, they’re not sexy, but a twisted ankle isn’t exactly a mood-setter either.

Declutter the Space

Declutter the Space

Clear out the shampoo bottles, razors, and random loofahs that may be hanging around. The last thing you need is a cascade of toiletries disrupting the fun—and risking injury. A tidy shower equals a smoother and steamier experience. And anyway, you need room for your sex toys!

– Water Temperature

Find the Perfect Water Temperature

Not everyone uses the same temperature, so take the time to figure out what is comfortable for both of you. This will set the tone for relaxation and enjoyment. Remember, warm is wonderful, but scalding is not.

– Right Tools on Hand

Have the Right Tools on Hand

Mastering how to have shower sex includes equipping yourself with the right gear. Waterproof lube is essential since water washes away natural lubrication, and a detachable showerhead equals a whole lot of fun. Don’t forget your favorite waterproof sex toys!


Shower Positions and Steamy Tips

Shower Sex Positions and Steamy Tips

A couple standing under the shower spray

Now that you’re set up, it’s time to dive into the fun. These shower sex tips are sure to make a splash—pun intended.

Warm Things Up With Water Foreplay

1. Warm Things Up With Water Foreplay

Water is the ultimate warm-up tool, so let it work its magic. Start by playing with the temperature, alternating between soothing warmth and cold, teasing water. Try a quick burst of cold water on sensitive spots like nipples— it’s tingly and oh-so-tantalizing. Just be sure to avoid anything extreme, like icy or scalding hot water! 

A detachable showerhead is your best friend here, as it allows you to focus the stream on all the right places. Adjust the water pressure as you glide it along your partner’s body, targeting sensitive spots like the neck, chest, or in-between their thighs. This is also a great time to bring out the toys! 

Keep your shower head handy for during other shower sex positions to amplify the pleasure. And remember, sharing is caring. Make sure you both get a turn under the water—there’s nothing sexy about shivering on the sidelines!

– The Sensual Soap and Shampoo

2. The Sensual Soap and Shampoo

Beyond being relaxing, soaping and shampooing each other is a great excuse to let your hands wander. Use the glide of the soap to caress your partner’s body, tracing their shoulders, back, and any other areas that catch your interest. The combination of slippery suds and tender touches is soothing, sensual, and a perfect way to connect and increase intimacy.

The best tip for how to have good shower sex? Don’t rush it! Take turns pampering, massaging, and teasing each other as you savor the slow buildup of desire.

– Find the Right Position

3. Find the Right Position

Shower sex doesn’t have to result in intercourse. It’s fine if you start there with foreplay, turn off the water, and move to the bedroom. But if you’re looking for a classic shower sex position, start with doggy style. It is a go-to because it works well in small spaces and allows you to give each other pleasure with minimal awkwardness.

The wrap-around is perfect for when you want to lock eyes and feel closer than ever. To get into position, one partner leans back slightly against the shower wall for support and lifts one leg to wrap it around the other partner’s waist while they hold onto the leg for stability.

These are just two options. The best shower sex position is the one you both enjoy. Don’t be afraid to experiment until you find what feels good.


Bonus Tips

Bonus Tips for Shower Sex Success

Learning how to have shower sex takes some time, but it’s definitely worth it! Some things to remember to make the learning curve easier are:

  • Go slow: Wet surfaces can be slippery, so take your time and move carefully. 
  • Use waterproof lube: Again, water washes away the body’s natural lubrication, so a high-quality silicone-based lube is essential. 
  • Communicate constantly: Keep an open dialogue with your partner to make sure you’re both comfortable and safe.

And finally, don’t hold back on the toys! They’ll make those steamy shower sex positions even more unforgettable. Browse FeelGood Store’s wide collection today to find everything you’ll need to elevate the experience before, during, and after!